In the ECNL (Elite Clubs National League), which includes both girls' and boys' divisions, body contact rules follow the standard FIFA Laws of the Game (specifically Law 12: Fouls and Misconduct) with no major deviations noted in the league's competition rules for physical play. ECNL games are played at a high competitive level with strong, athletic youth players (typically U13–U19), so referees allow more incidental physicality than in recreational leagues—but there's a clear line where contact becomes a foul, misconduct, or even dangerous.
The key threshold is whether the contact is careless, reckless, or involves excessive force (the three tiers from FIFA Law 12). Physical contact is part of elite soccer, but "too much" crosses into illegal territory when it meets these criteria. Here's a breakdown of what referees typically look for in ECNL games:
Shoulder-to-shoulder challenges: Fair when both players are genuinely contesting the ball, side-by-side, with arms close to the body (not extended or swinging). The contact must be shoulder-to-shoulder (not elbow, arm, or hip-check), and neither player uses disproportionate force.
Incidental contact while running for the ball: Brushing arms, light bumps while jockeying, or natural jostling in a crowded box— as long as it's not targeted or excessive.
Shielding the ball: Using your body to protect possession without pushing, holding, or impeding unfairly.
Jumping for headers: Contact from jumping is okay if it's for the ball and not leading with elbows/arms dangerously.
In ECNL, referees often let these go to keep the flow of a fast, physical game—especially in older age groups where players are more developed.
Contact crosses the line and draws a foul (direct free kick, or penalty if in the box) if it's:
Careless: Lack of attention or consideration (e.g., accidental but avoidable trip or bump while lunging).
Reckless: Disregard for opponent safety (e.g., lunging tackle from behind without playing the ball first).
Excessive force / Using excessive force: Unnecessary or disproportionate power (e.g., launching into a shoulder charge, slamming an opponent off the ball, or dropping body weight dangerously). This often leads to a yellow card, and if it endangers safety (e.g., studs-up tackle or violent conduct), a red card.
Specific examples of "too much" that get called consistently in ECNL:
Leading with arms/elbows in challenges (even if shoulder contact follows).
Pushing in the back or holding jerseys/arms while challenging.
Charging an opponent not in possession of the ball (e.g., blindside shoulder barge when they're not contesting).
Any contact that puts the opponent in danger (e.g., high boots, late tackles, or excessive force on a small/younger player in mixed-age contexts).
Repeated minor contacts that escalate into frustration fouls—referees crack down to prevent games from getting chippy.
ECNL has a strong emphasis on player safety and fair play (e.g., their "Red Isn't Your Color" initiative discourages behaviors leading to reds, including overly aggressive physical play).
Referees in ECNL are typically high-level and consistent, but calls can vary slightly by game—tighter in national events/showcase games to protect top talent.
Red cards for excessive physicality result in immediate suspension (remainder of the day + next day of competition, plus potential commissioner review for longer bans via video or reports).
In youth contexts, referees factor in age and development: More leniency for incidental contact in U13–U14, but stricter on force in U17–U19 where players are stronger.
Bottom line: In ECNL, you can be physical and win duels shoulder-to-shoulder, but anything that looks intentional, late, or overly forceful (especially if it knocks someone down hard or risks injury) is "too much" and will get whistled—often with a card. Train smart, legal challenges to stay effective without risking cards or injuries. If you're prepping for a specific age group or have a clip/scenario in mind, share more details!